Discernment Course for Couples
When a relationship feels uncertain, the hardest place to be is in-between. This course helps you and your partner understand what’s working, what’s not, and whether you should repair the relationship or lovingly part ways.
- Start gaining clarity in just one hour
- Includes exercises, guided reflection prompts & conversation templates
- Created for couples facing relationship uncertainty
What You'll Learn
- 10 Complete Modules
- 10 Video Lessons
- Weekly Exercises
- Homework Reflections
- Tools rooted in psychology
- Communication prompts
- 24/7 access on desktop, tablet, or mobile
- Learn anytime, anywhere, at your own pace
- Certificate of Completion
- People who have been in a committed relationship
- Marriages
- Engaged couples
- Straight or LGBTQAI+
Module 1 — Early Relationship History
Before you understand where you are today, you must understand where you began.
This module helps you revisit the early chapters of your relationship — the attraction, the connection, the milestones, and the emotional foundation you built together.
You’ll uncover the expectations, hopes, and early patterns that shaped your dynamic from the start.
Module 2 — Relationship Similarities
Shared values, interests, personality traits, and emotional needs often create the glue that holds partners together.
Here, you’ll explore the key similarities that have supported your connection and discover how these strengths continue to influence your relationship today.
Module 3 — Relationship Differences
Differences can be enriching — or deeply challenging.
In this module, you’ll identify where you and your partner diverge in communication style, lifestyle preferences, emotional needs, beliefs, expectations, and more.
Understanding these differences with clarity (rather than judgment) helps you evaluate whether they can be integrated or if they’ve become barriers.
Module 4 — Relationship Timeline of Major Events
Every couple has defining moments that shape the course of their relationship.
Here, you’ll map out your relationship’s most significant events — the highs, the lows, the transitions, and the turning points.
This timeline brings clarity to how your connection evolved and highlights the patterns you may not have noticed before.
Module 5 — Your Gripes About Your Partner and the Relationship
Every partner has unmet needs, frustrations, and recurring complaints.
This module helps you articulate your concerns clearly and honestly — without blame or emotional shutdown.
You’ll explore the pain points that have led to dissatisfaction and assess how they impact your desire to stay or leave.
Module 6 — Your Partner’s Gripes About You
In this module, you’ll shift perspective and explore the concerns your partner holds about your behavior and contribution to the relationship struggles.
This exercise fosters empathy, accountability, and a deeper understanding of each other’s emotional world.
Module 7 — Your Partner’s Gripes About the Relationship
Here, you’ll look at the concerns your partner has about the relationship as a whole — the dynamic, the patterns, the communication style, and the emotional climate.
Seeing the relationship through their eyes gives you a clearer, more balanced understanding of where things stand.
Module 8 — Discussion & Evaluation of the Relationship
This is the heart of the discernment process.
Using everything you’ve explored so far, you’ll engage in a structured, calm discussion about the state of your relationship.
You’ll evaluate your strengths, challenges, and patterns with clarity — giving both partners space to feel heard and understood.
Module 9 — Discernment: Coming to a Decision as a Couple
In this module, you’ll use guided frameworks to move toward a thoughtful decision.
Whether you choose to recommit and repair, continue exploring uncertainty, or begin a respectful separation, you’ll make this choice from a place of understanding rather than impulse or pressure.
Module 10 — Moving Forward
The final module supports you in stepping into the next chapter — together or separately.
You’ll learn how to create a path forward with emotional responsibility, healthy communication, and compassion.
This module ensures you don’t just reach a decision — you know how to act on it with clarity and support.
Helping You Navigate Every Stage of Your Journey.
Hi, I’m Gina! I help couples and individuals move from disconnect and frustration to clarity, compassion, and authentic connection. My work blends evidence-based therapeutic practices with real-life communication tools that actually make a difference in everyday relationships.
Whether you’re navigating conflict, healing old wounds, trying to reconnect or rebuild, I’m here to guide you with empathy, clear structure, and strategies you can trust.
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